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The reward for humility and fear of the LORD is riches and honor and life.  5 Thorns and snares are in the way of the crooked; whoever guards his soul will keep far from them.  6 Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:4-6  

 Within the Rite of Holy Baptism, parents of small children, sponsors and congregations promise that we will lead the child into a healthy life of faith in Christ Jesus.  We promise that we will bring the child to God’s house for worship, teach them the Lord’s Prayer, Ten Commandments and the Creed.  We promise to place the Holy Scriptures in their hands and help them learn from them by reading the Bible together.  We promise to provide for their instruction in the Christian faith so that they would live in the covenant of their baptism and in communion with God’s people.  Parents of the newly baptized children especially bear responsibility for these promises; promises their parents first made on their behalf years ago.

 The Proverb above speaks to the importance of such promise keeping.  Usually, when the Proverb is spoken of, it is verse six that stands alone; “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”  But when we read this verse in its fuller context, we soon realize the importance of a young life being provided a strong foundation of faith.  The world is filled with powers that defy God, temptations that are overwhelming and so many of the devil’s false promises. We all want our children to have a good life, a full life, one that brings pleasure to their selves and to others.  But as we read in Scripture, and know through our experience, the devil and his minions set thorns and snares along the pathways of God’s people.  On our own, we are no match for them.  Left to fend for ourselves, we will fall deeper into sin without even realizing it.

 For several decades now, there has been a worsening condition permeating the Christian Church, one by which we have seen ever increasing numbers of our younger members fall away from faith.  I believe it is so important to address this condition that I have devoted my doctoral studies to develop resources for pastors, congregations and families to bring about faith formation for our children and children’s children.

 I think we can all agree that we would love to see more of our young people in worship and Sunday school.  The trouble is that so often we don’t know how to encourage them.  Instead, we sometimes inadvertently enable them in their staying away.  Truth being told, children, especially teens, earnestly desire to have a healthy relationship with church families, one centered upon Jesus Christ and one that shares a desire to grow in relationship with God and his people.

 Over the years, I have ministered to parents whose children have fallen away from the church.  I have ministered to grandparents who faithfully bring their grandchildren to worship often (and that’s a good thing).  I have also heard questions from such children that ask, “If mommy and daddy don’t have to go to church, why do I have to go?”  This is a heartbreaking question because at the root of it lies a deeper and more central question, “Why don’t mommy and daddy WANT to go?”

 Jesus says, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God” (Luke 18:16).  The riches, honor and life the Proverb speaks of is a life lived eternally in the presence of God.  When we fail to keep our baptismal promises, we hinder our children; we keep them from growing in a life of faith in Christ.  And not only that, first and foremost, we break the promise we initially made before God and one another.

People of God, I know this is a sensitive issue.  I myself have had to face this truth in my own life.  I know first-hand the difficulties of keeping such promises, especially when children grow older and become more independent.  That is precisely the time when parents should strive to keep the promise they made to their child.  Train them up in the way they should go.  Encourage them when they are older, and faithfully come to God’s house together and enjoy a life lived among God and his people. Doing so will bring us to the reward God has in mind for all his people; life in his kingdom forever.

 Grace to you and peace, Pastor David Nuottila